Friends are awesome. So are movies about them. However, not all pals go together like peanut butter and jelly, or Thelma and Louise. Some movies are about how opposites attract when two completely different people develop a most unlikely bond. These are my ten favourites of this unsung sub-genre!
Up
No one does the odd couple flick like Pixar. Whether it's Buzz and Woody, or Dory and Marlin, Pixar has it down pat. My favourite, though, is Carl and Russell in the lovable Up - a crotchety old man who has lost his beloved wife and an adventurous young boy who needs a friend. Together they soar through the sky in a house lifted by balloons, coming across adventures along the way. The reason Up works so well is that Carl is everyone's grandfather and Russell is everyone's little brother. Both characters are so tangible; we all know people just like them. It is a pairing we'd all like to imagine happening in real life. Is there anything more endearing than watching an old person and a little kid enjoying each other's company? I doubt it.
About a Boy
This is Hugh Grant doing what Hugh Grant does best. He plays Will, a curmudeonly, rich Brit who thinks "every man is an island." On the other end of the spectrum is Marcus, played by Nicholas Hoult. He is a nerdy, sensitive kid who gets teased at school. Long story short, Will joins a single parents support group (despite not even being a parent, let alone a single one) to meet damaged, attractive women. Karma decides to have a sense of humour and Will ends up meeting Marcus, who is the son of one of the women in the group. At first Will is reluctant, but soon begins to warm up to Marcus and they develop a relationship that seems genuine and mutual. This is a movie about what we can learn from each other. Sounds cheesy, but coming from an adaptation of a Nick Hornby novel, it has all the wit and charm one could want in a movie.
Midnight Cowboy
For all you youngsters, this one's a classic. It stars Jon Voight and Dustin Hoffman, as two outcasts trying to make it in New York City. It's a heartbreaking story, but one worth watching. It goes to show that you can find a friend when and where you least expect it. Both actors are extraordinary in their roles. Not to mention, it is a blessing to see Dustin Hoffman pre- Meet the Fockers. Equipped with a killer theme song sung by Harry Nilsson, famous lines, and an ahead of its time perspective, Midnight Cowboy is a total must-see.
Ghost World
Thora Birch and Steve Buscemi form the odd couple in Ghost World. Thora Birch plays Enid, the clichéd indie girl with a chip on her shoulder. Just graduated from high school, she is trying to figure out what to do with her life. Steve Buscemi plays Seymour, a social outcast who collects records. They cross paths through a practical joke and begin an uncomfortable, co-dependent friendship. This movie is definitely the least warm and fuzzy of the bunch, but it is not without its charm. In the end, there are no life lessons, no everlasting bonds, and no real conclusions. Instead, there is a string of quirky characters, hilarious social commentary, and a true to life script.
Harold and Maude
This is my personal favourite of the group and a movie I hold very near and dear. It is about Harold, played by Bud Cort, who is a young adult struggling to find a reason to live. He goes to funerals as a hobby. Maude, played by the wonderful Ruth Gordon, is an 80-year-old eccentric. She goes to funerals to celebrate life. As fate would have it, they come together and share a short, only-in-the movies kind of romance. In essence, Maude teaches Harold how to live and appreciate each day. While it carries a sentimental message, the film also has a dark humoured edge. Beautifully directed by the wildly underrated Hal Ashby, Harold and Maude is the perfect rainy day, life affirming movie that should be in everyone's DVD collection. Not to mention, the killer soundtrack by Cat Stevens.
Half Nelson
It is no secret that I love Ryan Gosling. My sixteen year old self got him to sign my copy of The Notebook at TIFF and it is now a prized possession. Half Nelson is his Oscar-nominated role as a lonely, rough around the edges teacher in an inner city high school. One of the girls he teaches, played by newcomer Shareeka Epps, catches him in a sticky situation. With their shared secrets, they find a much needed friend and confidante in one other. I like that this film doesn't go into the creepy, affair with a teacher territory - it is simply about two people helping each other through difficult times. This is probably the least known, smallest film on the list, but it is a quiet gem worth seeking out.
Driving Miss Daisy
Who doesn't love Morgan Freeman? Let's be honest, he is the human equivalent to sunshine. For those of you who haven't seen it, Driving Miss Daisy is the story about an old Jewish woman, Daisy, (Jessica Tandy) and her African-American chauffeur, Hoke, (Morgan Freeman) in the old time American South. At first, Daisy is weary of Hoke and racial tensions run rampant, but over the years, Daisy leans on Hoke more than she would have ever expected. Their friendship ascends race, gender, and class, which makes this film such a special one. We've all seen the themes before, but Driving Miss Daisy does it with more heart than any of them. It is probably your grandma's favourite movie, but that isn't always a bad thing!
Hearts in Atlantis
With the novel written by Stephen King, one can expect this film to be a bit odd and spooky. While not a horror, it certainly has a subtle eeriness throughout. It takes place over a summer in the 1950s, when a strange man moves into the apartment above a boy and his mother. Anthony Hopkins is perfectly cast as the mysterious Ted Brautigan who speaks of yellow men and being watched. Bobby, the young boy, spends a lot of time with Mr. Brautigan over the course of the summer and in between does a lot of growing up. With the help of his new friend, Bobby becomes aware of the dangers of the world, but also the beauty of it. For me, this film sums up the nostalgia of childhood summers and coming of age.
Knocked Up
Plain and simple, this movie makes me laugh so hard I almost pee. Also plain and simple, Knocked Up is about what happens when a one night stand ends up in pregnancy as written by Judd Apatow. Seth Rogen and Katherine Heigl play as the odd couple who are brought together by the miracle of life. If nothing else, Knocked Up gives all the Seth Rogens of the world hope that they, too, can have sex with the Katherine Heigls of the world. That being said, the two of them have an amazing amount of chemistry and you can't help but want them to live happily ever after. With a hilarious supporting cast and a clever script, Knocked Up is the one to grab if you need a good laugh.
Big Business
Everyone who knows me knows exactly why I picked this one so I won't even try to lie about it. I picked Big Business because of Lily Tomlin and Bette Midler. These two funny ladies play identical twins switched at birth. Before Lindsay Lohan did it in Parent Trap, Lily and Bette play their own twins. One twin of each pair was switched at birth and given to the wrong parents. It is too confusing to explain further so you'll just have to watch it for yourself. I will admit, Big Business has no artistic merit and it is as cheesy as any other 80s movie, but it is a fun romp through New York City with two of the greatest comediennes of all time. What could be bad about that?
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With my list completed, I can safely say that for me, the appeal of these movies are their ability to make us believe that true friends do exist. They are positive examples of the important roles we play in each other's lives. Whether it is through comedy or melodrama, each of these movies make us wish we had friends like the characters we are watching. And if you're lucky, you do have friends like Maude, Hoke, Russell, and all of the others I've mentioned.